In this episode, we’re diving into the viral trend of “f*ck around and find out” parenting — and unpacking what’s really going on behind it.
We talk about the extremes of this style compared to gentle and authoritative parenting approaches, and how easy it can be to swing from one end of the spectrum to the other when we’re feeling burnt out, overstimulated, or just plain done.
We also share some honest (and funny) real-life examples with our own kids, exploring where natural consequences make sense and where connection still needs to lead the way.
This conversation is about finding that middle ground — where boundaries are clear, empathy stays present, and our kids learn through relationship, not fear.
If you’ve ever felt torn between being “too gentle” or “too strict,” this one’s for you. 💛
Alicia & Aleni are both Moms and certified infant and toddler sleep specialists who don't use traditional sleep training methods to support the families that they work with.
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**The information shared is not medical advice & is for entertainment purposes only