In this special episode, Dr. Sheva welcomes back Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick, hosts of the Dateable Podcast, to dive into the insights from their brand-new book, How to Be Dateable.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in modern dating, this episode is a must-listen. Yue and Julie break down what it truly means to be "dateable"—and it’s not about playing games or fitting into outdated rules.
We’re unpacking:
✅ How ingrained dating culture shapes your love life (and what to do about it) ✅ The secret to dating with connection and authenticity (no more surface-level interactions!) ✅ How to identify your needs and define your dating North Star ✅ The 5 Dating Archetypes—Which one are you? ✅ Are you scared of wasting time? Here’s what might actually be draining your energy and focus!
This episode is packed with real talk, laughter, and practical takeaways to help you navigate dating with confidence and clarity.
Tune in now—because the love you want starts with the choices you make today. Enjoy!
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Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu are active daters turned dating insiders, who have become two of the top influential voices in dating, relationships, and connection in the digital world. They’re the co-hosts and creators of Dateable, which has been named one of the top podcasts about modern dating and relationships by the New York Times, The Huffington Post, Oprah Daily, and more. They're also the hosts and executive producers of the dating experiment show Exit Interview and the authors of the book How To Be Dateable.
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