In this bold and deeply empowering episode of Tea with Dee, Delynn Miller dives into one of the most uncomfortable, yet transformative, skills you'll ever learn: how to reclaim your time and energy — and mean it. If your schedule is packed but your heart feels hollow, or you constantly feel like you're giving to everyone except yourself, this conversation is for you. Delynn breaks down why we leak energy in four key areas, how social conditioning has shaped your people-pleasing patterns, and what true boundaries really are (hint: they're not walls — they're standards). You'll learn: Why we feel compulsive need to give constantly (even at our own expense) How your brain goes into decision fatigue from overcommitting The four main energy leaks: people, tasks, thought patterns, and environment How to create a priority pyramid with your non-negotiables at the top Exact strategies to honor the pause before saying yes to anything This episode is your reminder that busy isn't the goal — purposeful is. You're not selfish for protecting your peace. You're just done being less.