Not everyone is too emotional to cry when things happen,people feel very bad about something happening to them or people around them and they won’t shed a tear,this doesn’t mean they are emotionless,most times people don’t know how to feel or how to harness their feelings,we are too hurt to even think of what has happened..When death claims the life of someone we love, we don’t know how to feel, so some of us look for the best way to escape, people lose their loved ones and end up clubbing that particular day,we can’t tell people how to mourn their love ones..Cause they are not crying and wailing doesn’t mean they don’t feel hurt, I’m not saying crying is a bad thing, people just expect you to be sad and depressed all the time when you have lost a loved one, they don’t think you should be happy or be in a bright mood,I just feel that’s the traditional way..