How do spankos meet each other? And why is it so hard to come out as a spanko, either to your family or your co-workers? We talk about the overlap between open relationships, poly, and the spanking scenes. What exactly do you call a relationship where you aren't really *dating* other people, but you are playing with multiple play partners?  We also talk about how some people in the scene aren't necessarily spankos, and generally get into a lot of topics that maybe we shouldn't.