Social dynamics at spanking parties can be fraught, especially for newcomers, and even more so for shy or awkward people. And let's be honest, the spanking scene has plenty of both. Lexi, Evy, and Nameless discuss their experiences at the 2021 Lone Star Spanking Party, some uncomfortable truths the de-facto caste system that arises at kink parties, and how to manage or avoid those difficult dynamics. Also, some philosophizing about top and bottom psychology, whether spankos tend to be nerds, and... Shrek-themed spankings?