In this episode of Talk Tovey To Me, Jess and Meg unpack one of the most misunderstood concepts in business and self-development: confidence.If you’ve ever thought, “I’m just not confident enough yet” — this one’s for you. Jess and Meg share a powerful reframe: confidence isn’t a prerequisite, it’s a byproduct of taking action. They dive into how real confidence is built through repetition, reflection, and resilience — not just mindset hacks or external validation.
This episode blends practical insights with personal anecdotes — from business pivots and creative ruts to luxury dinners and early bedtimes — to illustrate what it really takes to grow as an entrepreneur.
Whether you’re navigating imposter syndrome, launching a new offer, or trying to raise your rates, this conversation will leave you feeling grounded, challenged, and ready to take the next step.
🎧 Are you holding yourself back because you think you’re “not confident enough”? Tune in to learn how to build competence, reframe failure, and finally stop waiting to “feel ready.”
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💄🔓Jess is the Founder of House of Brows Cosmetic Tattoo and HB Academy, an Accredited Trainer, Expert Cosmetic Tattoo Artist, and Business Mentor. Jessica helps beauty business owners stand out, sell out, and scale with confidence, systems, and authority. Through her mentorship, Jessica supports beauty professionals to build unique and recognisable brands that attract premium clients, and build businesses that generate consistent high income months. Jess combines elite-level industry expertise with business strategies and her proven framework, to empower artists to own their value, lead with authority, and create long-term, scalable success. If you're ready to stop playing small and start building the business you've always envisioned, now is the time to take action.
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Chapters:
00:00 – Introduction: burnout, and boundaries
02:00 – The hidden cost of creative overwhelm and mental load
04:15 – Personal updates: high-end dining, shifting gears, and lifestyle design
07:00 – Business momentum: coaching wins, systems overhaul, and leadership insights
11:57 – The confidence myth: why mindset alone isn’t enough
14:35 – Repetition builds confidence — not readiness
17:15 – From overthinking to ownership: the evolution of self-trust
19:30 – Competence before confidence: a foundational principle for growth
21:00 – Embracing imperfection: the value of being a beginner
23:50 – Imposter syndrome as a growth indicator
26:15 – Pricing and integrity: charging what you’ve earned
29:00 – Practical tips to build confidence safely and sustainably
33:00 – Fear of judgment: how to move through it with purpose
36:50 – The importance of mentorship, community, and learning from failure
38:20 – The bottom line: confidence comes from action