BPD Frustration Intolerance

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Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

A.J. Mahari

185 episodes

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A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.

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BPD Frustration Intolerance

Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

18 minutes

3 months ago

BPD Frustration Intolerance

BPD Frustration Intolerance

BPD Frustration Intolerance explains one of the most confusing, crazy-making, and painful dynamics loved ones face in relationships with someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder. In this episode, I unpack why ordinary limits, boundaries, or small disappointments can trigger emotionally explosive reactions, chaos, and betrayal cycles. No matter how any times you try to calm a person with BPD down, jump to their demands, apologize for what they are doing to you, try to help them emotionally regulate, you cannot stop these betrayal cycles.
In the betrayal cycles and through all the demands and the Borderline (protective) entitlement as they shame you and blame you and "hold you responsible" in their projective identification they have no real-time emotional awareness of YOU, of what YOU are feeling, of what YOU are going through. They don't care after each and every one of these betrayal cycles. YOU won't be seen or heard or empathized with, understood, or apologized to either.

In this podcast episode you will learn and I hope gain clarity about:

What frustration intolerance really means in the context of BPD
How trauma and emotional dysregulation fuel these reactions
Why the cycle creates a false promise of peace that never lasts
The toll it takes on partners, family members, and friends
Why this makes BPD relationships unsustainable

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