When it comes to IVF for surrogacy, not all fertility clinics are created equal. And the wrong choice can lead to delays, surprise restrictions, and missed chances at parenthood.
In this episode, Dr. Alyssa Small Layne shares four often-overlooked—but crucial—factors to consider when selecting a fertility clinic. From restrictive agency requirements to embryo thawing policies, this honest conversation is a must-listen before you commit to any clinic.
🎧 Whether you’ve already created embryos or are still exploring, this guide will help you avoid common mistakes and choose a clinic that truly supports your journey.
What You’ll Learn:
02:28 — The surprising shift in support when you switch from IVF to surrogacy
04:06 — Why exclusivity deals with lawyers or therapists can be a red flag
08:17 — How independent surrogacy is treated differently by some clinics
10:54 — The surrogate vetting mistake that changed everything for Alyssa
13:18 — How to work around clinic pushback when going independent
14:30 — Real stories of communication delays that stalled surrogacy journeys
16:18 — What to ask about portal access, turnaround times, and surrogate updates
18:09 — The embryo transfer dealbreaker no one tells you about
20:21 — Why freeze/thaw protocols matter when changing clinics
22:11 — A 4-part checklist for choosing the right clinic
Resources Mentioned:
SMS #39: 4 Crucial Tips for Choosing a Great Surrogacy Clinic
ASRM guidelines: Recommendations for practices using gestational carriers: A committee opinion
“You’ve already waited long enough—don’t let the wrong clinic make you wait even longer.”
