how do you tell your partner what you want in the bedroom? 🤔 it seems relatively simple to people who are either advanced, sure of themselves, or super comfortable with their partners, but this is not the reality for everyone. at times sex and intimacy is truly difficult for some people and i have been there at one point of my life, very unsure of what i even enjoy, what feels good to me, and understanding my body and needs. it's a totally normal thing, not everyone has a porn star mentality and they shouldn't! let's discuss how to go about asking for what you like, want to try, what feels good, and understand that there is no shame in your desires. ❤️