Your ego wants you to believe you're in control. That if you just stay vigilant enough, productive enough, prepared enough—you can prevent bad things from happening.
It's a lie. And it's keeping you stuck.
In this episode, Chelsea gets raw about slipping back into survival mode after a year of deep transformation. She breaks down why your primitive brain creates false control through victim mentality, and how childhood survival strategies are still running your adult decisions.
This isn't about positive thinking or "choosing better thoughts." This is about the nervous system patterns that keep you reaching for familiar discomfort instead of uncertain growth.
You understand your trauma intellectually but still make the same choices
You feel trapped by circumstances you know you have the power to change
You're exhausted from trying to control everything and everyone around you
You're ready to embrace the unknown instead of white-knuckling certainty
Why your ego operates from the most primitive part of your brain
How victim mentality gives you false control over external circumstances
The daily disruption practices that reset your nervous system for resilience
Why small acts (different routes, new experiences) build capacity for the unknown
"Your core themes from childhood are still driving your thoughts and behaviors. By identifying these patterns, you can break free from the cycles of your past and step into an empowered version of yourself."
If you're done living in your head and ready to embrace the uncertain expansion you've been avoiding, Chelsea's 1:1 container is open.
You'll get a 90-minute Purpose Mapping Call where you'll identify the exact patterns keeping you small and map out what needs to shift.
This work isn't comfortable. But staying stuck is worse.
