Loving in action and in truth means taking care and providing for others when they are need (James 2:16; Matthew 25: 34-40). It means not being afraid to be honest with each other, gently rebuking and correcting each other when we are in sin ( Galatians 6: 1), and encouraging those who are in need  (Ephesians 4:29; Hebrews 10: 24-25). Love means being patient, kind, content. It means being humble and polite with each other (I said polite, not political.), and not insisting on having our own way all the time. (1 Corinthians 13:4-6) Love means that we resist the temptation to act like children, fussing and fighting, and instead act in godly maturity, seeking to live at peace with everyone as far as it depends on us. (Hebrews 13: 11; Romans 12:18)