In today's episode of Speaking of Inclusion... I'm joined by Marie Coombes of "We Restore Calm" and we're talking all about conflict!
Marie is not just an expert in conflict—she's a master at transforming it as a tool for understanding and growth.
In our conversation, we discuss into the intricacies of conflict and why it’s an inevitable, and not necessarily negative, part of our lives. We also explore the nature of "acceptance" over "agreement" and why that distinction is crucial in personal and professional settings.
Marie gets metaphorical and geeks out with her impressive Marvel knowledge, which actually worked amazingly to illustrate her take on conflict, and kept the conversation fun too!
Here are three things you need to know about this episode:
Conflict as an "Unmet Need"
Marie redefines conflict not as a confrontation to be avoided but as an opportunity to identify and address unmet needs.
Constructive vs. Destructive Conflict
Learn about the difference between managing conflict like "Bruce Banner" versus unleashing the "Hulk" and why curiosity and empathy are essential tools in transforming conflict into something productive.
Acceptance or Agreement?
Discover why aiming for acceptance of differing perspectives can be more valuable than pushing for agreement, and how this mindset can preserve relationships and foster real understanding.
As you listen, I encourage you to reflect on this question: How do you currently approach conflicts, and what steps can you take to transform your reactions from defensive to constructive?
So, you know the drill...
Get comfortable in whichever way works best for you, and let's talk conflict with Marie Coombes!
Maries can be found on LinkedIn as @MarieCoombes and her website is www.WeRestoreCalm.com