In this episode of 'Speak the Truth,' Shauna and Mike welcome Curtis and Jenny Solomon to discuss their new books, 'Redeem Your Marriage' and 'Reclaim Your Marriage.' The Solomons explore how their books address the impact of pornography on marriages, offering support for both the offending and hurt parties. They delve into the process of writing their books, sharing personal insights and struggles, and emphasize the importance of lament and genuine repentance. The discussion also covers practical advice for biblical counselors and pastors on how to use the books as resources for couples and even touches on parenting strategies to protect children from the influences of pornography.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:25 Book Review Series Launch
00:48 Meet the Guests: Curtis and Jenny Solomon
01:09 Curtis Solomon's Background and Roles
02:11 Introducing Jenny Solomon
03:13 Discussing the Books: Redeem Your Marriage and Reclaim Your Marriage
04:17 Challenges and Joys of Writing
09:01 The Importance of Lament in Healing
11:06 Addressing Misconceptions: Don't Blame Yourself for His Sin
15:58 The Role of the Spouse as an Ally
19:34 Creating a Safe Home Environment
20:15 Parenting Tips for Navigating Digital Dangers
22:55 Engaging in Open Conversations with Children
24:16 The Importance of Both Parents in Sex Education
25:48 Teaching Modesty and Privacy to Children
27:24 Healthy Cross-Gender Relationships
31:08 Using the Book in Counseling and Church Settings
38:12 Writing the Book: Inspirations and Challenges
40:16 Final Thoughts and Future Plans
Episode Mentions
Curtis's Book for Husbands
Jenny's Book for Wives
Lament References:
Dark Clouds Deep Mercy
God's Healing for Life's Lessons
Counseling & Consulting
Solomon Soul Care
Training & Equipping
Southern Seminary - Biblical Counseling Concentration Degree