In this Soul Love Letter, Grieve What Didn’t Happen, we hold space for the tender truth that it’s okay to mourn the timelines we thought we’d be on, the versions of ourselves we’ve outgrown, and the relationships or dreams that never unfolded the way we imagined. Grief isn’t only about loss through death—it’s about change, growth, and even becoming.

This letter is a reminder that grief and gratitude can exist together in the same breath. One doesn’t cancel out the other; both are sacred, both are necessary, and both shape who we are becoming. While you’re still here, you are allowed to honor your grief without guilt and embrace gratitude without minimizing your pain.

Because every ending holds space for a new beginning, and every loss carries within it the quiet gift of transformation