As we celebrate two years of podcasting and journey toward 100 episodes, I’m bringing back this Most Loved episode — the powerful free birth story of first-time father Aaron Cloutier.
At 52, Aaron welcomed his son Thomas Cade in an unassisted home birth with his partner Anna. In this conversation, he shares the raw and beautiful reality of supporting his partner through pregnancy, labor, and birth, while navigating moments of fear, trust, and surrender.
Aaron reflects on:
Growing up the youngest of eight children, surrounded by strong male role models and many sisters who became mothers.
How his decades of experience as a chiropractor and natural health practitioner shaped his perspective on birth and physiology.
The unexpected detour to the hospital when concerns about bleeding arose — and the powerful decision to leave against medical advice and continue the journey at home.
Witnessing Anna’s courage through prodromal labor, the turning point when she fully surrendered, and the radiant moment Thomas was born.
The transition into fatherhood later in life and what it means to be truly present as a dad.
Aaron’s story reminds us that free birth is not just the mother’s passage — it also reshapes the men who stand beside them, calling forth courage, trust, and devotion.
About Aaron Cloutier
Aaron is a chiropractor, natural health practitioner, and nutritional therapist with over two decades of experience in vitalistic, relationship-centered care. A Maine native, he lives in Augusta with his partner Anna and their son Thomas.
Connect with Aaron through his website: www.acabarhealth.com
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Music: The Ancients (feat. Loga Ramin Torkian) by Azam Ali
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The information and resources provided by me are not intended to constitute or replace medical or midwifery advice or a Mother’s intuition. Instead, all information provided is intended for education purposes only. My advice is not to be seen as medical diagnosis or to treat any medical illness or condition of Mother or baby/fetus.
Keywords: natural birth, home birth, freebirth, physiological birth, birth stories, postpartum healing, women’s circles, rites of passage, womb wisdom, feminine embodiment, sisterhood, conscious conception, birth trauma healing, matrescence, menopause, first-time mom birth story, VBAC, spirit baby.