Sometimes we speak to how we would feel, or we speak from a biblical standpoint. Are we speaking too soon? Every married person that God calls is looking forward to never divorcing, but is every married "saved" person in an ordained Marriage? If you are not in an ordained marriage and you know this because you simply do not have peace, and this individual has made sure that your focus is not on you calling, then divorce is a FREEDOM! Let the Lord free you to serve him!