Content note: This episode includes discussion of burnout, panic attacks, insomnia, and a brief mention of suicidal thoughts (non-graphic). Please listen with care.
When achievement stops feeling like joy—and the “perfect life” shows up with panic in tow—what then?
I’m joined by surgeon, coach, and Surgeons with Purpose host Dr. Mel Thacker for a candid look at hero culture in medicine, fiduciary ethics, and how we return power to patients (and to ourselves). Mel shares the moment her “shaking hands in the OR” became a wake-up call, why creation has to be for you first, and how suffering—when witnessed with compassion—can become fuel for purpose.
Together, we unpack the Drama Triangle and the Empowerment Dynamic, the subtle creep of “get energy,” and practical ways to stay in integrity when compensation and convenience tempt us off-center.
In this episode, you’ll learn
If you’re a clinician who looks “successful” on paper but feels misaligned, over-responsible, or stuck in hero mode, this conversation is a reframe and a reset.
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A gentle note: I’m a doctor, but I’m not your doctor. This podcast is for education and connection only and isn’t medical advice. Please talk with your own clinician about your specific situation.
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