Welcome to the Soft Power Project, a podcast that journals the story of women as they navigate their own transformations. I’m Sherry, a certified coach and your host. In my mid 30s, I made the bold decision to reinvent my life. Now in my 40s, I’m sharing that journey, along with the stories of the women, who inspire me. Like you, we are embracing growth to become our highest selves. Let’s celebrate the power of self-exploration, one story at a time.
For any questions, please find me at softpower.you@gmail.com
If you like to share your story on Soft Power Project, please fill out this from and I will get back to you as soon as possible.
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Soft Power Coaching Program
It's designed for women who were told they were too sensitive, too nice, too quiet, or never enough, my coaching provides a safe and empowering space to:
- Channel anger into clarity and action (not chaos).
- Define their own power. Soft, bold, or a blend of both.
- Build strong self-connection and boundaries that protect their energy.
- Transform from fixing everyone else’s life to fully living their own.
This isn’t about becoming harder. It’s about becoming whole. Whether you are going through something difficult (divorce, custody battle, leaving toxic relationship) or just yearning for change, this is for you.
Welcome to the Soft Power Project, a podcast that journals the story of women as they navigate their own transformations. I’m Sherry, a certified coach and your host. In my mid 30s, I made the bold decision to reinvent my life. Now in my 40s, I’m sharing that journey, along with the stories of the women, who inspire me. Like you, we are embracing growth to become our highest selves. Let’s celebrate the power of self-exploration, one story at a time.
For any questions, please find me at softpower.you@gmail.com
If you like to share your story on Soft Power Project, please fill out this from and I will get back to you as soon as possible.
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Soft Power Coaching Program
It's designed for women who were told they were too sensitive, too nice, too quiet, or never enough, my coaching provides a safe and empowering space to:
- Channel anger into clarity and action (not chaos).
- Define their own power. Soft, bold, or a blend of both.
- Build strong self-connection and boundaries that protect their energy.
- Transform from fixing everyone else’s life to fully living their own.
This isn’t about becoming harder. It’s about becoming whole. Whether you are going through something difficult (divorce, custody battle, leaving toxic relationship) or just yearning for change, this is for you.

Sharon Fan, my guest today, has built an incredibly successful career—she’s the ultimate go-to-market guru and a devoted mother. But balancing career and motherhood hasn’t come without struggles and deep self-reflection.
In this episode, we dive into the raw and unfiltered realities of motherhood, especially for women who have transitioned from structured, career-driven lives. Our conversation explores the complexities of navigating identity, the weight of cultural expectations, and the vital role of support systems.
Sharon opens up about her personal journey—stories of resilience, overwhelm, and the courage it takes to be vulnerable. She shares why setting boundaries matters and how authenticity is a form of power. Together, we reflect on how motherhood reshapes our understanding of ourselves and the world—and why embracing our soft power is not only necessary, but revolutionary.
Chapters
00:00 The Reality of Motherhood
10:08 Navigating Career and Motherhood
20:02 The Struggles of Control and Chaos
29:55 Facing the Unthinkable: Child Safety and Advocacy
33:55 Rediscovering Self Through Parenting
36:06 The Journey of Setting Boundaries
42:40 Embracing Vulnerability and Authenticity
50:02 The Power of Softness and Resilience
01:00:08 Speaking Out Against Injustice
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