When Terry meets couples in therapy he always wants to talk to the wise adult within you. But it is not all times you have access to that wise adult. Sometimes the inner/adaptive child takes over. In this episode we’ll talk a bit more about these two versions that exists within us all. What happens when we let the inner/adaptive child to take over, and what the complications might be. We also like how Terry talks about the micro-traumas or traumas with the little t.  Link below to the relationship grid for better understanding: https://shorturl.at/er6ON Link to the test and a little intro from Terry himself https://terryreal.com/the-relationship-grid-explained/ To get a better idea of what we are taking you through in this season!