Start your journey towards a better headspace here: https://www.mentep.com In this episode, Sid sits down with India's #1 dating coach, Kshitij Sehrawat. They talk about the dating market in India, his stories from game and pickup; they also discuss trauma, what is it, how it effects people and the types of it. A large part of the discussion centres around that and it's healing. They also discuss the wrongs of Bollywood; how borderline molestation is passed off as a comedic/romantic thing, how there's no concept of consent, etc. Finally they also talk about the concept of touch in pickup and game. Disclaimer: Neither Kshitij nor Siddhansh is a clinical psychologist, viewer discretion is advised. About Kshitij: He's an international personal development coach helping men be more confident, get more dates, & have deeper fulfilling relationships. Over the years, he's helped over 1000s of men in person and online through his transformational content and coaching over the past 5 years. He's been featured in various publications including Vice, The Times of India, Indiatimes, MensXP, & DNA India. And is one of the most sought after coaches in the Self-Improvement industry. Connect with Kshitij: Iron Man Lifestyle: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCf07eBo_ZzNmhVeTRyJDJ3g High Worth Cycle: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsxB6KoVi07qKAfMaA672mQ/featured Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kshitijsehrawat/ 00:00 ad 00:40 Introduction 01:12 India's dating market 04:39 Kshitij is Sanjay Dutt 06:11 Abundance vs Manipulation 14:40 Kshitij's dating by refferal 16:04 Why do people cry in Kshitij's workshops 20:00 Depersonalising Trauma 23:20 Goa game story 27:16 Game is not "On/Off" 32:10 Setting boundaries 34:35 How to fix the "creepy guy" reputation 38:55 College presses the reset button 44:33 What is "trauma" 48:41 Childhood trauma and parents 57:05 Trauma and types of it 01:00:45 A traumatic experience 01:04:04 Parents should make a safe space for a child 01:06:22 Get healed before having a child 01:13:05 Bollywood and it's problematic scenes 01:19:39 Gangs of Wasseypur is realistic 01:21:27 "Touching" in game 1:26:13 Closing notes Connect with Siddhansh Agrawal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sidsbrainwork/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/sidsbrainwork LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/siddhansh-agrawal-6b95231b8/ Facebook: (who tf uses it now) Mentep: https://www.mentep.com