About Our Guest:
Pearlé is a seasoned professional in the trust and safety space, currently residing in London. She has a diverse background, having lived and worked in multiple countries including Nigeria, California (Bay Area), and Ireland. With a robust educational foundation from UC Berkeley and an extensive career in tech policy, Pearlé has established herself as a prominent figure in the intersection of technology, user rights, and safety. She's also known for embodying her alter ego, the "Yoncé of Tech Policy," showcasing her dynamic personality and commitment to her profession.
Lexi B welcomes Pearlé, a prominent figure in the trust and safety space, to explore the intriguing concept of building an alter ego for professional development. The episode kicks off with a warm exchange, highlighting their mutual admiration and the impactful work done in tech policy. Pearlé shares her journey from Nigeria to various global cities and her career evolution in tech. She emphasizes the importance of community and mentorship, mentioning how Lexi B's initiatives have been a significant source of support.
As the conversation deepens, Pearlé elaborates on how she constructed her alter ego—the "Yoncé of Tech Policy"—to navigate professional challenges and boost her confidence. She draws inspiration from iconic figures like Beyoncé and Kobe Bryant, explaining how their alter egos (Sasha Fierce and Black Mamba) motivate her. Pearlé provides actionable steps for listeners to develop their own alter egos, emphasizing the importance of defining one's purpose, understanding one's backstory, and continuously practicing and refining this heightened persona. The episode also touches on broader themes of personal growth, societal expectations, and the power of self-acceptance.
Defining Purpose: Understand your "why" and let it guide the creation of your alter ego.
Inspiration from Icons: Drawing inspiration from influential figures can help shape a powerful alter ego.
Building Confidence: An alter ego can serve as a confidence booster to overcome challenges like imposter syndrome.
Practicing Persona: Regularly practicing and reinforcing your alter ego helps it become a natural part of you.
Embracing Multifaceted Identities: Recognize and celebrate the different layers of your identity, including your alter ego, to live a fulfilling life.
"I need to embody a character that would make me feel more confident in terms of going into this new space, this new role, this new country." - Pearlé Nwaezeigwe
"Your alter ego is protecting you and also pushing you through things like imposter syndrome." - Lexi B
"The goal of an alter ego is to eventually become the alter ego." - Pearlé Nwaezeigwe