In this grounding and vulnerable conversation, Vanessa Mareesits down with Brad Barnett, a fire dancer, speaker, and man on a mission to be “a beacon of hope for women who have bad stories.”
Brad opens up about his past, including a pivotal momentthat changed how he shows up in relationships and life. He shares his journey from old patterns to self-awareness, and how choosing celibacy has helped him reconnect with his values and purpose.
Together, they unpack:
- What men really mean when they say they’re “too busy”or avoid emotional honesty.
- The importance of communication, respect, and taking accountability.
- Why women should honour themselves as divine beings — the portal of life — and stay discerning in who they allow into their energy.
- What it looks like when a man is genuinely doing the innerwork.
This conversation is a reminder that good men do exist…(evenVanessa Maree was a little lost for words at the end!!) and that healing and respect can come from both sides.
Tune in for a heartfelt conversation about growth, integrity, and the power of self-respect in modern dating and connection.
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