In this solo episode, I’m giving you an update on my recent singles event, sharing how Reiki has been a game-changer for opening my heart again, and revealing a little Hinge hack that has men sending the first message (yes, it’s actually working!).
Singles Events Update!
I talk about the beautiful connections that happen when people come together without pressure or expectation, like how walking in nature and not needing constant eye contact can ease nerves and open up real conversations. I share a story about a woman who hadn’t been on a date in a long time, and how just having a genuine chat with a man helped her build confidence again.
I also address one of the biggest misconceptions: that you’ll instantly meet your future husband at a singles event. Instead, I invite you to shift your perspective, these events are about opportunities. You might meet a new friend, a business collaborator, or another woman who becomes your wingwoman. By letting go of rigid expectations, you open yourself up to receiving exactly what you need in the moment.
Reiki Update!
Reiki has been paramount in my own journey of opening my heart. I share how Reiki helps dissolve stuck emotions, unblock your energy, and create space for connection. Beyond Reiki, I touch on other ways to open your heart, through kindness, compassion, gratitude, and simply being of service to others.
Finally, I share a fun discovery on the Hinge dating app: the way you word just one prompt can completely change the dynamic and make men feel safe enough to message you first. This little tweak has already been working for me, and I’ll tell you exactly how.
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