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I've begun reading the book Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man by Steve Harvey….. I have some things to say.
And no — I’m not jaded, I’m just not here for another “here’s how to understand men” guide targeted only at women.
In this episode, I unpack some of the core messages in the book and share my take on why I believe these kinds of resources are missing the mark.
Why are we constantly asked to invest time, energy, and money into understanding men — when we’re rarely met with the same effort in return?
I break down the chapters that suggest men are simple and only need three things (yes, only three!) and why I feel this foundation is based on manipulation and game-playing rather than authentic connection.
I also dig into the categories Steve Harvey says men place women in when they meet us — and what would happen if we flipped that narrative. Spoiler: I don’t think it would go down well.
Plus, I speak from the heart about the Single and Not Settling space. Why I created this community, and why it’s not about being “against men,” but about women finding empowerment in their own journey. This is about doing the work for you, not to fit into someone else’s idea of what you should be.
I give a little shoutout to my new eBook The Empowered Single Woman, a guide to help you reconnect with your values, set powerful standards, and remember your worth!
Oh, and Steve, if you’re listening? Let’s flip the script and co-write a book to help men understand women for once.
This is Part 1 — I’m still reading the book, so stay tuned for more in Part 2.
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