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In this eye-opening episode, Vanessa Maree sits down with Mark Rosenfeld, one of Australia’s most sought-after dating coaches. Featured on global media and radio, Mark brings a grounded, real-talk perspective to modern dating that every woman needs to hear.
What happens when a male dating coach creates a fake female profile on dating apps?
Mark shares how this experiment helped him crack the code to online dating and develop practical tools that help women filter for quality connections from the first message.
Here’s what we covered in this conversation:
- How Mark helps women attract better matches using a structured messaging formula and custom profile design.
- The most common misunderstandings women have about men in dating
- The connection between energy and attraction.
- Why the tone of your messages can make or break the dynamic—and how to guide it effortlessly.
- How to craft profile prompts that make him step up and qualify himself.
- Men and personal development and the gap with men and women.
- His perspective on whether men know what they want (and if they’ve forgotten how to date altogether).
- Why setting standards isn’t enough—you have to embody them first.
- Traits of a high-value man and what to look for.
- What to do when you really like a guy but feel unsure.
And the quote you’ll want to write down:
“Connections with others start with connecting with yourself.” – Mark
We also answer listener questions straight from Vanessa’s Instagram poll.
Want to work with Mark or learn more about his program? You can find him here: https://makehimyours.com.au/
Connect with your host, Vanessa Maree and send me a DM to receive your free dating eBook, The Empowered Single Woman https://www.instagram.com/vanessamaree_wingwoman/