In this episode of Shot At Love, the roles reverse as Julie Lokun, host of the Get Obsessed podcast, interviews me for a candid conversation about dating in today’s world. We break down the realities of modern connection—why dating apps feel overwhelming, how to recognize red flags sooner, and the mindset shifts that help you stay hopeful without lowering your standards. We explore chemistry versus compatibility, first-date strategy, texting etiquette, and the subtle signals people reveal right away. I also share how my background as a celebrity photographer shapes the way I guide singles toward creating a genuine, compelling online presence. If you’re rebuilding, starting over, or simply looking for clarity in a confusing dating landscape, this episode offers insight, strategy, and encouragement you can use right now.