What if the key to self-mastery isn’t winning every battle, but learning how to keep fighting?

So many people struggle with Shemiras Einayim and personal growth because they expect perfection. The moment they stumble, they assume they’ve failed. But what if failure isn’t falling—only staying down? The Yetzer Hara tricks us into thinking that if we can’t do everything, we might as well do nothing. But the truth is, every small step forward rewires our Bechira, making the next victory easier.

This episode uncovers the Torah’s approach to growth—how making even the smallest improvements builds momentum. What happens when you push yourself just one minute past your limit? Why does Hashem care more about effort than immediate results? And how can we take control of our struggles instead of being controlled by them? If you’ve ever felt stuck in an endless cycle of setbacks, this conversation will give you the tools to break free, rebuild, and keep climbing.

Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!