If you could steal one trait from your partner (or your best friend, sibling, or toddler), what would it be? In this episode, we play a game of “I wish I had your…”—where admiration meets mild envy and turns into something beautiful. From moral compass to comedic timing, crisis control to reading speed, we name the things we love most about each other—and how those traits shape our marriage and our lives.

We talk about the difference between admiring someone and wanting to be them, what it looks like to complement rather than compete, and why this kind of conversation might be one of the sweetest forms of words of affirmation.

Then we rapid-fire through everything from freckles and hair thickness to parenting styles, theology knowledge, and why we’d gladly trade lives with our kids if it meant someone else handled snacks and sunscreen.

This one is tender, cozy, and full of gratitude—and honestly, we think you’re going to want to try it at your own dinner table.