How do you manage life's disappointments? Hopefully better than I did.

In one of my darkest seasons, I resorted to blaming God for my mistakes. I wandered off course and like the prodigal child, I squandered what was my inheritance.

Then one day I heard a voice inside me said, "Go home."

It was a command to go home to Abba Daddy. 

I knew that life wasn’t supposed to be this way. 

I felt completely hopeless. Angry. Disappointed. I truly believed God had abandoned my prayers.

This was a tough pill to swallow, because I used to be Miss positivity, and I had a crystal-clear vision for my future—and pie-in-the-sky dreams and bold faith to believe that they would all come true. 

But fast forward nearly a decade later… and nothing looked the way I thought it would.

The fire fizzled. 

The hope faded. 

The faith? Well, I felt like I was just going through the motions.

I would complete my daily "spiritual checklist." 

And without clarity and faith to believe, I wandered off course. 

I tried so many different things—side hustle and  business ideas—thinking, “This is it! This will be the one!”

But deep down… nothing fit.

It felt like David trying to wear Saul’s armor to fight Goliath—uncomfortable, heavy, and completely wrong for the battle I was meant to fight.

I tried network marketing—2 different companies. 

Affiliate marketing—2 different companies. 

I was approved as an Amazon influencer. 

I invested in and shared digital marketing. 

And then, as I mentioned small odds & ends jobs and even drove DoorDash. 

Ms. Shine with Frannie was now delivering tacos instead of testimonies.

To say I was humbled is an understatement. 

I couldn’t help but think, “Lord, where are you?! How did I end up here? This is not who You called me to be!”

But here’s the good news: God never left my side. 

In that dark and disappointing season, He spoke to me so gently:

“I know you’re hurting and it feels like I’ve left you… but remember, no one shouts when they’re standing right next to you.” 

Sis, that Truth changed everything.

And I pray it is a word in season for you, too.

I realized God was faithful and just like His word said, "He would never leave me nor forsake me." 

He was closer than ever—quietly guiding me, refining me, and reminding me who I really am.

Through that process, I didn’t just find direction—I found my identity.

And now, I’m on a mission to help others do the same.

God wants to take all of your unique gifts, talents, and life experiences and partner with you to fulfill your purpose, calling, and assignment.

Here’s what I’ve learned:
 Your purpose is why you were created.
 Your calling is the unique way you fulfill that purpose.
 Your assignment is how you’re walking that out in this season. (And yes, it changes—just like nature's seasons do!)

So, sister, if you’ve been in a season where you’ve felt hopeless, disappointed, or even angry with God—if you’ve questioned your dreams, your direction, or your worth—please know this:

 God's got you. Remember—no one shouts when they’re standing right next to you.
 If you’ve been nodding your head while you've listening to this, it’s because this message is for you.This is your sign to join me for my free mini-masterclass:

 From Confusion to Calling: Step Boldly Into Your God-Given Destiny

Monday, October 27 | 8PM EST

Let’s reignite your fire and help you get clear on your purpose, calling, and assignment—and walk in confidence as the daughter of the King you were created to be. 

Email me at shinewithfrannie@gmail.com and put the word DESTINY in the subject line and I will get you all of the details.