What if the way you offer criticism is the biggest obstacle to your marriage’s growth?

Rabbi Ari Klapper takes a deep dive into one of the hardest topics in marriage: giving and receiving criticism. It’s easy to focus on how others need to change — but when your words hurt more than help, you risk damaging the very relationship you want to improve. This episode explores how criticism, even when well-intentioned, often triggers feelings of inadequacy, especially in a wife who desires her husband’s respect more than anything else.

Discover how to shift from blaming to building. Rabbi Klapper shares practical insights on addressing household issues with sensitivity, reframing conversations around improvement rather than fault, and creating an atmosphere where both partners feel respected. Learn how understanding the root cause of frustrations can transform criticism into constructive growth.

Ready to change your home’s dynamic? Tune in to learn how to address challenges with wisdom and turn potential conflict into an opportunity for connection and mutual support.

Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!