Who shapes your wife’s sense of self-worth? You do.

Chazal teach that a husband has the power to build his wife into who she is meant to be — or to tear her down. Rabbi Ari Klapper delves into this often-overlooked responsibility and shows how a wife’s entire self-image is shaped by her husband’s reactions. What you say, how you respond, and whether you acknowledge her efforts matter more than you realize.

This episode uncovers the secret to creating lasting emotional security in marriage: intentional praise and thoughtful support. Drawing from the Torah’s portrayal of Yaakov Avinu’s love for Rochel, Rabbi Klapper explains that love isn’t just about feelings — it’s about recognizing your spouse’s unique qualities and helping them flourish. Learn practical ways to express appreciation, build trust, and become the partner your wife longs for you to be.

What’s your real job in marriage? Discover how to transform your relationship through words that uplift, actions that support, and a commitment to truly see your wife.

Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!