In this episode Roane, Eva, and Ben the importance of awareness and change in overcoming relationship challenges, emphasizing the need for both individuals in the couple to engage in their own healing work. They highlight the complexities of trauma and betrayal, and the importance of vulnerability, reassurance, and authentic communication in building and maintaining intimacy. They also emphasize the role of trust in relationships and the need for a surgical, effective solution to address immediate feelings of guilt and shame. By sharing their experiences, they emphasize the importance of regulating emotions and healing the brain to overcome the challenges of what they call "intimacy disorder".