She didn't get along great with my parents. And there was always tension in that space. And then I always felt like I had to be on my best behavior or else. It always felt that way. And so it just didn't; she was not my favorite person to be around. And then when I was 16 I moved to New Hampshire. I was living with my father in New Hampshire, and most of my family was still back in California. And my grandmother came to visit, and I was like, all right, let's do this. Here we go. Get the room clean, make sure the clothes are ironed. Make sure I'm the right kind of person for however long she's gonna be here. Graciously. She was staying in a hotel so she wasn't staying in our place. Gave us a little bit of breathing room. So she comes and she visits. We're having a fine time. It is what it is. And at one point, you know, we're done with the day's visit and she's gotta go back to her hotel and she's at a walking distance, so she says, Philip, will you walk with me back to my hotel? And I said, sure, grandma. So we walk back to the hotel. And then she's like, well, will you come up with me to my room? And I'm like, yeah, sure grandma. You know, where's this going? So I go upstairs and she's got this little sitting area in her hotel and she says, sit down. And we sit down and she said, I've gotta talk to you. And I think, here we go.