Evan sits down with acclaimed historian Stephanie Coontz to discuss the evolving nature of marriage and family life. Coontz offers deep insights into the shifts in marital norms over the past few decades, highlighting how co-providing, gender roles, and societal expectations have changed. The episode also delves into 'silent divorces' and the complexities of rekindling relationships with ex-spouses. Additionally, Stephanie shares her experience of having her work cited in the Supreme Court's decision legalizing same-sex marriage and offers a sneak peek into her forthcoming book. This episode is rich with historical context, personal anecdotes, and practical advice for anyone interested in the future of marriage and relationships.   Topics 00:19 Welcome to the Shine On Podcast 00:55 Introducing Stephanie Coontz 03:12 Silent Divorce: A New Perspective 07:16 Reconnecting with an Ex: Is It Worth It? 11:21 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics 24:00 Discussing Modern Marriages 24:13 Stephanie's New Book 25:41 Redefining Marriage Norms 29:12 Historical Perspectives on Marriage 31:22 Future of Marriage and Relationships 32:40 Supreme Court Citation Experience 34:34 Advice for Younger Self 41:05 Impact of Divorce on Society 45:59 Fun Segment: They Said It 53:10 Conclusion and Farewell