During the interview with Shannon’s parents, Shannon’s dad said loosing his wife and his marriage was not worth any one else.

This is something that hits different when you are in a marriage that has walked through betrayal, especially in the beginning stages of healing.

Whether you stay or whether you leave, there is that lingering question of “why wasn’t I enough?” “Why wasn’t I worth staying faithful, being fought for, why didn’t our family matter?”

We discuss how these questions and our personal value systems, or lack of, played out in the broken marriage we had and the redeemed marriage we have today.