Just recently I’ve seen a quote saying: “I am not your free time or your second choice, prioritize me or leave me”.

One of the most common causes of friction and arguments in relationships is when one partner does not feel like being a priority.

And of course, if “being a priority” is based on the expectations that the other meets your own needs, then this is neediness and manipulation, but not a conscious request for making the relationship a priority.

You have heard me speaking about the importance of knowing one own’s needs, values and boundaries. This knowledge is your pillar for love. For self love and for any love relationship.

And then if you enter a relationship and you really want it to grow, it needs a third entity:  call it the relationship bubble or what ever,  where both partners make a commitment to.

And 2 more important simple aspects which make the relationship feel "being a priority".