How?
Stop pleasing others!
Are you concerned of being liked by everyone?
Are you worried about what others may think of you?
Saying “yes” to all of others people’s requests so they find you cool?
That is pleasing!
A blueprint protection Survival Strategy learnt as a child to get love, to belong, to feel safe!
At what costs?
You are living cut off from your TRUE Self!
Your authentic Self!
You may never feel heard or seen. That is one cost.
Or feeling overwhelm, maybe even taking for granted for. Or even feeling others take advantage of you?
The worst scenario is being involved in constant problems and struggles in relationships.
All signs of living unauthentically.
Step out
Step up for yourself ️
Invest in Your Authentic Life!
Trust the process.
Trust you are able to live life EVEN if:
- some people think the way they want about you - so what?
- some friends fall away... (wondering if they were true friends anyway)
- Not everyone likes you
Only true authenticity allows the beauty of deep relating and intimacy.
PS If you don’t know what I am talking about or how to get there, reach out to me. Always happy to have a free first chat).
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