abandoning your creativity for male validation: the male gaze and being perceived

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abandoning your creativity for male validation: the male gaze and being perceived

s0 wet s0 dry

1 hour 53 minutes 20 seconds

9 months ago

abandoning your creativity for male validation: the male gaze and being perceived

This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn ask: are we abandoning our creativity for male validation? Are we more creative when we’re single? Do we know ourselves outside of the male gaze?

We’re talking: Being creative with your partner, lacking self-worth, daddy issues, conforming to the male ideal, how the need for male validation affects our voice, prioritizing male validation over your friends, the Carrie Bradshaw hate train, creating for a female audience vs a male audience, authenticity versus approval, art with an audience, being perceived, the male gaze, the white gaze, the myth of male validation, the uses of the erotic by Audre Lorde, the female gaze, polls, listener stories, and more

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Intro 00:00:00 - 00:03:17

Our experiences with craving male validation 00:03:17 - 00:15:13

Why do we crave male validation and how does it hold us back from expressing our true selves? 00:15:13 - 00:31:43

The male gaze, the white gaze, and the female gaze 00:31:43 - 01:11:40

The myth of male validation and the uses of the erotic by Audre Lorde 01:11:40 - 01:26:44

Do we have to go boy sober to return to our creativity? 01:26:44 - 01:37:36 Wrap up: what’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the topic 01:37:36 - 01:53:20

Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1V09FbmZXVU2OqgZoewtYLy9fXXEcm2ztMLha_47s1go/edit?usp=sharing

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Autumn (host, editor)

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Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)

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A.I.R. (Music Producer)

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