Send us a text A chat at the airfield turns into a round of “I would never…” and sparks this episode on what I call verbal condemnation. From “I’d never rehome my dog” to “My dog would never bite”, these statements often hide fear, not fact. I explore the defense mechanisms behind them, projection, denial, moral high ground, and why they sting so much when directed at us. Awareness isn’t about brushing things off. It’s the first step toward understanding what we’re really afraid o...
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Send us a text A chat at the airfield turns into a round of “I would never…” and sparks this episode on what I call verbal condemnation. From “I’d never rehome my dog” to “My dog would never bite”, these statements often hide fear, not fact. I explore the defense mechanisms behind them, projection, denial, moral high ground, and why they sting so much when directed at us. Awareness isn’t about brushing things off. It’s the first step toward understanding what we’re really afraid o...
Mindset Episode 024 | What do you do when you have no time to grieve?
Ruff Around The Edges
21 minutes
1 year ago
Mindset Episode 024 | What do you do when you have no time to grieve?
Send us a textWarning: this episode references euthanasiaWhat do you do when you have been dealt an emotional blow, and need time to process that, but time is the one thing you don't have?Because you have to get back to work so you can make rent for example?Or because you're parenting small children and you're happy to get 5 minutes of quiet time on the toilet?This episode tries to give some practical tips as to what you can do in situations like that using the low-key of example of getting o...
Ruff Around The Edges
Send us a text A chat at the airfield turns into a round of “I would never…” and sparks this episode on what I call verbal condemnation. From “I’d never rehome my dog” to “My dog would never bite”, these statements often hide fear, not fact. I explore the defense mechanisms behind them, projection, denial, moral high ground, and why they sting so much when directed at us. Awareness isn’t about brushing things off. It’s the first step toward understanding what we’re really afraid o...