Beyond the Red Flags

Red flags aren’t the problem… ignoring them is.

Think about it:

• Your date’s phone might be louder than his voice.

• “Whatever makes you happy” = 🚩 (we all know it).

• Confidence whispers, insecurity screams—guess which one flexes the car?

• The way he treats a waiter is exactly how he’ll treat you one day.

This episode isn’t about avoiding dating disasters—it’s about seeing the truth behind the small stuff, and laughing about it later. Because every red flag is basically a free personality test.

And here’s the kicker: before you try to decode anyone else, try decoding yourself. Most of us ignore the signs not because we can’t see them, but because we’re scared of what they mean.

So we’re talking presence, money talk, judgmental vibes, ex-bashing, and finally—why mindset (fixed vs growth) is the real game changer. At the end of the day, loving yourself first makes dating way easier… and way less dramatic.

• Red flags = free personality tests.

• Phones, money, waiters: they all say more than words.

• “Whatever makes you happy” isn’t care—it’s avoidance.

• Flashy doesn’t mean confident. It usually means panic.

• Stop judging, start noticing.

• Understanding them starts with understanding you.