In this heartfelt episode of the "Rock Your Retirement" podcast, Kathe and Barbara discuss a cherished tradition they each hold dear: taking their grandchildren or nieces and nephews on special trips.
The episode opens with Kathe sharing how she and her sister, who have no children of their own, make it a point to take their nieces and nephews on memorable graduation trips. This sets the stage for Barbara to share her own recent experience of a special trip she took with her almost-twelve-year-old granddaughter, Paisley.
Barbara recounts the entire adventure, from the initial planning stages to the delightful experiences she and Paisley shared. Inspired by her previous conversations with Kathe, Barbara decided not to wait until her grandchildren turned eighteen to start these trips.
She took Paisley on a three-day trip to Victoria, Canada, by ferry from Seattle. The trip included various exciting activities like taking a catamaran ferry, walking around downtown Victoria, enjoying unique culinary experiences like hot pot and dumplings, and visiting Butchart Gardens.
Barbara emphasizes the importance of one-on-one time, explaining how such trips can deepen the bond between grandparents and grandchildren and create lifelong memories.
The conversation also dives into the practical aspects of planning such trips. Barbara shares several valuable tips, including planning well in advance to secure better rates and discussing travel plans with the kids to build their excitement. She also stresses the importance of knowing the travel regulations, such as obtaining the necessary permissions and notarized letters when traveling across borders with grandchildren. These insights can be particularly helpful for listeners who are considering similar endeavors and want to ensure everything goes smoothly.
In addition to practical advice, the episode explores the emotional value of these trips. Barbara highlights how giving the child the power to make decisions, such as choosing places to visit or where to eat, not only provides them with a sense of independence but also makes the trip more enjoyable for both parties.
She shares touching moments from her trip, like her granddaughter grabbing her hand while walking through the quaint streets of Victoria or navigating the city using Barbara’s phone. These anecdotes underscore the deeper theme of building lasting connections through shared experiences.
The episode concludes with a broader contemplation on the importance of intentional time with loved ones, whether through grand adventures or simple, everyday activities.
Kathe and Barbara both stress that while these trips are a fabulous way to create memories, even smaller gestures like spending a day at the park or making a pie together can significantly impact family relationships. This episode is a heartwarming reminder that the greatest gift we can give our loved ones is our time and undivided attention.
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