Any relationship book worth it's salt will recommend the necessity of writing a list of your ideal mate and partner. So, in this episode, S1E12 The List, Joan follows in tandem and drafts a list of her perfect mate, and as luck would have it, she meets him at a gallery opening. We learn once Joan sets her eyes on a target, she is a force to be reckoned with, so move out the way. Although Joan finds her ideal mate, he never calls, and when Lynn reveals his lack of communication, Joan faces an uncomfortable aspect of herself. Toni runs into a ghost from her past, and William sees crazy internet Yvonne again.

This episode, Margaret and I explore the idea of a list and its advantages and disadvantages, attacking friends when they express their truth and gender expectations and roles in courtship.