So, you know I love the adage, hindsight is 20/20, and as I pause to reflect on the last 20 years of my life, I'm glad I can engage in this reflection through the lens of the hit UPN television show, Girlfriends, created by Mara Brock Akil. In this series, one of my besties, Margaret, joins me as we delve into the characters' encountering issues profoundly resonating with the experiences of African American women.  Additionally, we explore how each character represents a psychic function of the feminine existing within every woman. So, brew you a cup of Ginger tea or pour you a glass of wine, and join us for some character analysis, exploration of personal blunders, and honest dialogue between two girlfriends who are evolving and committed to self-healing.