Learning lots about the relationships that I’ve had in my lifetime so far and understanding the reason why and how they were the way that they were, I realized that a lot of the time in society were taught that to find relationships It should be like a moth to a similar flame, but that can be really a dangerous cycle. Relationships should be built on core values of perpetuating safety and love in life. I recently learned about a coined term, “called reeling it in”. Where instead of just bonding with people over similarities of trauma. You don’t talk about those things until you understand each other’s core values:)