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#20 - The Other Cold War: To attract, or not to attract? Part 2
Relawesomeships
41 minutes 4 seconds
6 years ago
#20 - The Other Cold War: To attract, or not to attract? Part 2
We continue our episode on the role of attraction in the dating world with fellow podcasters Steph and Tracy. Paul tells us about the time he was floored by friendliness in college. Steph tells us about her very specific tastes (men who wear hats and do accounting), Tracy discusses her more broad tastes (men with emotional intelligence and growth mindsets). Bryce makes the point that being appealing to others (within healthy bounds) is actually an important aspect of empathy. We discuss the role of humor in attractiveness, and how men are more likely to try to be funny (with mixed results!). Also, we delve into one of women's deep, dark secrets about attraction - that it's important to them more than they want to admit - and discuss scientific findings on how attraction is a necessary, but not a sufficient, condition for a successful romantic relationship (and beyond a certain threshold, attractiveness has diminishing returns :-O ).
Check out Steph's podcasts:
http://www.notablepeeps.com/
http://www.utahfanclub.org/
Check out Tracy's podcast:
https://thyneighborpodcast.podbean.com/
Relawesomeships
Join us for fun and substantive discussions on how to make human relationships awesome in the 21st century. Now with 30% more wisecracks and tangents! If you've got a brain AND a heart, you're going to like this.