Summary
In this conversation, Dr. Eran Magen and Alan Watts explore the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on parenting, divorce, and the emotional challenges faced by fathers.
They discuss the lack of relationship education, the importance of communication, and the impact of divorce on children. The conversation emphasises the need for support systems, the role of counseling, coaching, and the significance of maintaining connections during difficult times.
Dr. Magen shares insights on navigating the family court system and the importance of mediation, while also highlighting the journey of healing and personal growth following a divorce.
Takeaways
Relationships are not taught in schools, which is a significant issue.
The biggest determinant of health and happiness is the quality of relationships.
Dads often face high rates of suicide, highlighting the need for support.
Parenting should focus on reducing stress and increasing enjoyment.
Men often struggle to express their emotions, leading to isolation.
Communication is key in co-parenting and maintaining relationships.
Counseling should be seen as a proactive measure, not just a last resort.
Divorce can lead to significant emotional challenges for both parents and children.
It's crucial to maintain connections and seek support during tough times.
Healing and personal growth are possible after divorce, often leading to better outcomes.
Contact Info:-
Relationship Revolutions is hosted & presented by Alan Watts "The Love Engineer"
Alan is a relationship coach who uses a unique blend of NLP, coaching and Kinesiology to help & guide his clients to find, build & keep the relationship that is right for them.
Alan's socials and website can be found on www.linktr.ee/LoveEngineer
Guest Info
Eran Magen Ph.D. is a Population Health Psychologist, Founder and CEO of Early Alert (EarlyAlert.me) and Parenting For Humans (ParentingForHumans.com)
Linked In - https://www.linkedin.com/in/eranmagen/
Early Alert helps universities and K-12 schools prevent student suicide, by checking in with every student every week using confidential text messaging, offering instant referrals to students who need them, and providing a real-time wellness dashboard to support continuous improvement.
Parenting For Humans is a relationship-first, judgment-free approach to parenting that emphasizes collaboration and joy in parenting. For recorded workshops and to sign up for classes, visit http://ParentingForHumans.com
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and the Lack of Relationship Education
03:21 Prevention in Relationships: Open Communication and Check-Ins
06:28 Supporting Divorced Dads and Maintaining Connection with Children
16:18 Understanding the Emotional Experiences of Men and Women in Divorce
28:07 Spreading the Message: Things Get Better After Divorce
30:22 Becoming the Father Your Kids Need: Finding Motivation and Support
36:51 Navigating the Family Court System: Fair Custody Arrangements
38:53 Effective Communication and Mediation: Resolving Conflicts
49:20 Avoiding Court Battles: Non-Adversarial Approaches
53:18 Reaching Out for Support: Friends, Family, and Professionals
55:57 Enjoying Life During and After Divorce: Finding Happiness