
On this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I sit down with Jeni Archer, a professional witch and spiritual alchemist from New Amcia, who’s dedicated to helping others access their own inner wisdom. Jeni’s favorite quote—“In a world where you can be anything, be kind”—sets the stage for a powerful conversation about the real meaning of kindness, why it goes beyond “being nice,” and how it requires courage, boundaries, and honesty. Jeni shares deeply personal stories from growing up as an outlier in the American South and navigating moments of confrontation with empathy and strength. Together, we break down why kindness isn’t always easy, how it demands an ongoing choice to see the humanity and wounds in others, and why it’s essential for creating genuine progress, not just keeping the peace. If you’ve ever struggled to live your values in challenging moments, or wondered how to be compassionate without losing yourself, this episode offers honest insights and inspiration to try again tomorrow.
Connect with Jeni Archer
Website: https://www.hearthmagickshop.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/hearthmagick/
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:28 Jeni Shares Her Work
00:54 The Power of Being Kind
01:06 Breaking Down Kindness vs Niceness
02:03 Real-World Boundaries and Kindness
03:09 Why Kindness Resonates Deeply
03:53 The Difficulty of Real Kindness
04:31 Personal Stories of Choosing Kindness
05:28 Facing Hostility With Empathy
07:22 Practicing Kindness in Business
08:45 Kindness in Activism and Protest
10:26 Communication, Discourse, and Listening
11:49 Navigating Wounds and Safe Spaces
12:50 The Risks of Confusing Kindness and Niceness
13:45 Honest Reflections on Living the Quote
15:26 Why Kindness Is a Daily Choice
16:13 Where to Find Jeni Online
17:05 Closing and Farewell