In this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I sit down with Roy Reid, often called a “living miracle” after surviving a heart condition that completely changed his outlook on life. Roy shares the Thomas Jefferson quote that has shaped how he navigates everything from high-pressure boardrooms to personal relationships: “Nothing gives one person so much advantage over another as to remain always cool and unruffled under all circumstances.” We explore Roy’s journey—from student government drama to heated town hall meetings, and even tough moments at home—unpacking how staying calm isn’t just a personal virtue, but a way to build lasting trust and credibility. Roy also shares practical tips for repairing trust when things go wrong and reveals why communication and consistency matter most. If you’re seeking wisdom on how to keep your cool, strengthen relationships, and transform mistakes into deeper trust, Roy’s perspective is one you won’t want to miss.
Connect With Roy Reid
Website: https://roywreid.com
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:32 Meet Roy Reid
00:55 Roy’s Favorite Quote Revealed
01:19 Why the Quote Resonates
02:16 The Advantage of Staying Cool
03:06 Handling Heated Moments
03:31 The Power of Pausing
04:52 Real-Life Stories of Staying Calm
06:57 Navigating Community Conflict
07:45 Keeping Relationships Intact
08:45 The Role of Consistency and Reputation
11:03 Trust Transformation and Roy’s Work
12:28 How to Repair Broken Trust
15:21 Practical Ways to Communicate and Build Trust
17:26 Everyday Examples of Trust
19:06 Managing Expectations in Real Life
20:45 Podcasting, Disappointment, and Trust
22:07 Trust as a Life Operating System
22:17 Reputation and Keeping Promises
22:36 Where to Find Roy Reid
22:59 Episode Wrap-Up and Farewell
