“The little things about yourself matter.” In this deeply personal episode of Reign Check, I open up about what it’s like growing up in a spotlight that was never mine and what it took to finally start chasing my own. From trying everything - basketball, DJing, acting, even lacrosse 😅 - I spent years performing identities that weren’t truly mine. But this episode isn’t just about fame or expectations. It’s about the quiet pressure so many of us carry. The need to fit in. To be noticed. To be perfect. I talk about growing up in Miami, navigating private school cliques, losing friends, struggling with body image, and finding peace in the unexpected things - like horses, acting, and finally learning to love myself without needing a reason. If you’ve ever felt lost in someone else’s dream...If you’ve ever looked around and asked, “Why don’t I feel like enough?”If you’re still figuring out who you are... This one’s for you. Let this be your permission to grow slowly, love loudly, and stop chasing the version of you that was never yours to begin with. KEY POINTS:  - The common struggle of self-discovery and identity - On the pressure of being known as “someone's daughter or sister” - Who am I? Trying various hobbies, finding personal interests - The importance of persistence and self-acceptance - On being compared and expected to live up to siblings’ achievements  - Reminder: It’s okay not to be PEFECT  - Conforming to societal standards, beauty, and popularity - Finding self-esteem, clique to ‘fit in’, and the right peers  - Life in Miami and its impact on Reign’s personal development - Challenges and mental health struggles encountered - Finding peace, self-love, and self-acceptance - The pivotal role of having a supportive network of friends and family - The need to have a balance between personal expectations and reality - Focus on your happiness and embrace your current journey  QUOTES:  "Life is just life. It's what you make it that makes it amazing, or makes it however you want to make it." "I don't think I've ever met somebody who is certain on who they are." "Most of the time, you just want to be noticed." "I was constantly known as somebody's daughter or somebody's sister." "I couldn't even accept who I was." "There's never a limit to how much you can know or how much you can do. It's the limit that you put yourself." ✨ Need a Reign Check? ✨ Subscribe now so you never miss a new episode! 📲 Follow Reign on Instagram @reignmosley_  🎙️ Produced by EPYC Media Network — If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to rate, review, and share it with a friend!